Nobody is anything that they say they are. they are what they do

I am not a painter unless I paint. I am not a democrat unless i vote for a democrat. A democrat senator is not a democrat unless he votes with the democrats. I am not straight unless i am having sex with a woman. I am not gay unless I am having sex with a man. At all other times I am undefined. I can only speak of what I have done and what I plan to do.