Chinese men of a certain generation

All dream big and joke with their dreams. Constantly refocusing and redreaming how to be rich and happy. My father and Wilde both dream these dreams of how to get rich what to invest in how to sell this how to do something better etc etc. Very few of these are taken a hold of. They have big ideas but not big enough. Not pragmatic enough. They become selfish in their dreams. And wiah them to be exciting but offer stability. They don'rt confront the world. More on this later